[chris vickery]

I wish to comment on Rob Love's comment regarding "vultures".
We have all seen this, through family, friends and neighbours. Rest assured though, that this mentality is not limited to the "vultures" but can come full circle where the vulture is actually the "victim".
Several years ago a certain friend of mine who we all know, passed suddenly. This left his ill educated family (brothers) left cleaning up the estate.
While my friend and I had had several dealings between us over the years as well as pending agreements, I felt it was not appropriate to have him sign off and put pen to paper. He was sick and I was hoping for a full recovery. My loss.
When it came to settling up the estate, I offered the family my expertise and assistance in sorting and valuing his collection. At the same time I indicated that there were several items in his possession that were actually mine, being stored, or had been dealt to me. My friends brother essentially called me a liar and I was left without. As our deals had always been on a handshake, I did not have receipts etc. I was told that I could purchase what I wanted at the auction...
In the end I felt vindicated, although it was his heir who ultimately lost out. I purchased thousands of dollars in militaria for pennies on the dollar. I was ticked off at having to buy back what was actually mine but at the same time made out like a bandit.
Some examples of purchases made;
12 cmp tailights NOS $25
2- 1/2t truck tarp NOS $45
15cwt Ford cmp $130
UC carrier front armour $100
WW2 bell tent $45
12 CMP gauges NOS, $50
9.00-16 tires NOS $75, set of 4
(And yes, all these goodies were sold off a long time ago)
Sheer stubborness, mistrust and ignorance cost the estate thousands. I had approached the family initially, trying to do the right thing and be helpful.
This was typical and I know lots of others here did very very well too.
We all try to think we are immortal, and will live forever. Take it from me that when it comes to dollars, people get weird. Get it in writing, take it home, don't leave items long term.