ALEX... Nothing like a public flogging to start a day! I get your drift!!! And I didn't expect more than a visit. This visit you guys started yapping about is a great idea...BUT it also twigs into some of my other long time wants/goals. BTW... I wasn't consideringarriving for a visit and not leaving ... a visit and a move 2 different events. The visit would be great if a sure thing... the move is something I seriously think about for a long time and obviously need to be worked out.

Regards REALITY... major geographical moves are hard to swing from where I sit and spin with health issues and disability... but something that, as far as I'm concerned, and my friends and kids, something I need to do for my own happines as soon as I can find a way to do that.
I'm here because this is where my responsibilites have been... I've done my duty. My "duty" moved to another province and my relationship of 12 years is now just FINALLY over for good...I'm free At 49 to finally make some choices that suit and are good for me for a change. I keep in touch with friends. I consider Ontario, and Winnipeg was the other option, and I know all about the winters back that way. I come from there. Better climates for me than the damp here. I lived them. I'd planned on being moved the week of 9/11 ... that changed things. I now plan on being moved by summer, preferrably another province now I'm free to do that FINALLY, but you're absolutely correct about "it's difficult to swing from where I sit and spin" ... I expected the move to be within BC because of the disability help ... butreally don't want that... so if circumstances could accommodate what I truly would like... at age 49 and unhealthy... I'd rather cut to the chase and be disrupted for a while for the long term payoff...which i deserve. I make an effort and a point NOT to create ties and responsibilities to a place I'm going to leave soon...because when i make a commitment, I'm in for the long haul... and will sacrifice heart and soul to follow thru. I don't take people and responsibilities lightly. Never. And I'd sure like to be living in an area that suits my nature and personality better so I can be a happier Mom, friend,lover ... we all deserve it don't you think?

NOW ... put up your dukes my worthy opponant ... wanna fight?

now back to you...Yappy