Things to help my sister?

Hi People,

I know that most of you are already aware that my sister Susie (Sharon) was recently diagnosed with inoperable stage 4 lung cancer (it's spread within her system) when hospitalized for pneumonia. Well, she is currently back in hospital with pneumonia again. That's twice in about a month.

My request is to anyone in here who has experienced lung cancer and this process and knows much of what kinds of suffering happens for the person with this cancer, and what sorts of things can actually help ease pain, and comfort, help, in any way at all, to lighten up any suffering. What has worked for YOUR loved one? Anything I can pass on to her or her immediate family on how best to help her ... anything. Anything to prepare people on what to expect and how to help.

Please everyone, just let me know via PM or email. I don't want to do this in "a thread".

Thank You,

Karmen